Remove ext_or_conn_id and connection_or_remove_from_ext_or_id_map

gcc 12 correctly complains that connection_or_set_ext_or_identifier copies from
uninitialized memory. Since the result is never read, remove the function and
struct member.

Fixes: d1494d14 ("Remove orconn_ext_or_id_map and related functions")
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