warn when we'recalling a non-named server by its nickname;
don't warn twice about the same name.

Fix a bug in routers_update_status_from_networkstatus that made nearly
all clients never update routerinfo_t.is_named.

Try to list MyFamily elements by key, not by nickname.

Only warn about names that we generated ourself, or got from the local
user.

On TLS handshake, only check the other router's nickname against its
expected nickname if is_named is set.


svn:r5185