Backport #41432: Bump OpenSSL to 3.5.0

Backport Patchset

Book-keeping

Gitlab Issue(s)

• #41432 (closed)

Merge Request(s)

• !1200 (merged)

Target Channels

• maint-14.5
• maint-13.5

Notes

Wait for @ahf to confirm the C-tor patches have been backported to Tor 0.4.8.x.