Restrict "make test-stem" to tests that actually use tor

In legacy/trac#30694 (moved), we restricted the travis stem job to tests that actually use tor.

But we should lower that change to "make test-stem".

Gaba, this is sponsor 27 can, because it makes refactoring easier to test.

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