Disable all relay options when those modules are disabled

Here's what we want to change in this ticket:

• --disable-module-relay
  • disable DirPort, DirCache, ORPort
  • set ClientOnly to 1
  • Disables all the other options under Directory Server Options
  • Disables all the other options under Server Options
  • Disables the --list-fingerprint, RelayBandwidth*, MaxAdvertisedBandwidth, PerConnBW*, and ServerTransportPlugin options
    • Maybe some of these options should move under Server Options in the man page

These changes should be much easier after the config refactor.