Hi toralf. As mentioned on the list I need an actual torrc entry that reproes this. Doesn't need to be yours, just something that reproduces the problem. I just tried...
There! Finally got some time to dig in. Story here is that Stem added ExitPolicy support in 2013 at which point the only game was parsing the torrc's myriad of options (ExitPolicy, ExitPolicy6, ExitPolicyRejectPrivate, etc).
Iirc I spoke with teor about this in 2014 and he graciously added new GETINFO options to get the user's effective exit policy. I didn't take advantage of it at the time, but enough years have now passed that we can safely assume folks have it.
Stem now uses tor's new (more reliable) method of getting the exit policy...