Incorporate our unified extension button hiding logic into mozilla's changes for ESR 140

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Bugzilla: https://bugzilla.mozilla.org/show_bug.cgi?id=1948258

Make sure this new feature does not conflict with our own hiding logic from #41581 (closed).

See also the similar upstream tracking issue: #42635.

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