Introduce timer_is_scheduled() method and replace padding_scheduled_at_us
This came up during legacy/trac#28142 (moved) review: https://github.com/torproject/tor/pull/461#discussion_r231889687
When legacy/trac#28142 (moved) gets merged, we can do a small refactoring by removing padding_scheduled_at_us
and replacing it with a new timer method that returns true if the timer is scheduled, and false if it's disabled.